Wednesday, September 24, 2008

The Marks of a Man



Jared comes back from China on Saturday and then the countdown begins in earnest as he prepares to leave on his mission. My heart is tender and full, these days as I prepare (yes I have to prepare too!)  to send my son off in the service of the Lord. I joined the Pacific Area Missionary Moms list ( Thanks Melissa) and it has been a great source of info, comfort and inspiration. Someone posted this story and it touched me and so I thought I would share it.

The Marks of a Man
by David Bryan Viser

"As I jumped on board my flight from Miami to Salt Lake City, I paused for a moment to catch my breath. Seated near the front of the plane was an excited young man, probably 19, sitting with his parents. His hair was short, his clothes new and sharp. His suit fitted perfectly; his black shoes still retained that store bought shine. His body was in good shape, his face and hands were clean. In his eyes, I could see a nervous look; his movements were that of an actor on opening night. He was obviously flying to Utah to become a missionary for the LDS church. I smiled as I walked by, and took pride in belonging to the same church where these young men and women voluntarily serve the Savior for two years. With this special feeling, I continued back to where my seat was located. As I sat down in my seat, I looked to the right and to my surprise I saw another missionary, sleeping in the window seat. His hair was also short, but that was the only similarity between the two.
This one was obviously returning home, and I could tell at a glance what type of missionary he had been. The fact that he was already asleep told me a lot. His entire body seemed to let out a big sigh. It looked as if this was the first time in two years that he had even slept, and I wouldn't be surprised if it was.
As I looked at his face I could see the heavy bags under his eyes, the chapped lips, the scarred and sunburned face caused by the fierce Florida sun. His suit was tattered and worn. A few of the seams were coming apart, I noticed that there were a couple of tears that had been hand sewn with a very sloppy stitch. I saw the name tag, crooked, scratched, and bearing the name of the church he represented, the engraving of which was almost all worn away. I saw the knee of his pants, worn, and white, the result of many hours of humble prayer.
A tear came to my eye as I saw the things that really told me what kind of missionary he had been. I saw the marks that made this boy a man. His feet, the two that had carried him from house to house now lay there swollen and tired. they were covered by a pair of worn out shoes. Many of the large scrapes and gouges had been filled in by countless polishing. The books lying across his lap were his scriptures - the word of God. Once new, these books which testify of Jesus Christ and his mission were now torn, bent, and ragged from use. His hands, those big, strong hands which had been used to bless and teach, were now scarred and cut from knocking on doors. Those were indeed the marks of a man.
As I looked at him, I saw the marks of another man, the Savior, as He was hanging on the cross for the sins of the world. His feet, those that had once carried him throughout the land during his ministry, were now nailed to the cross. His side, now pierced with a spear, sealing his testimony with is life. his hands, the hands that had been used to ordain his servants and to bless the sick were also scarred with the nails that were pounded to hang him on the cross. Those were the marks of a great man.
As my mind returned to the missionary, my whole body seemed to swell with pride and joy because I knew, by looking at him, that he had served his Master well. My joy was so great that I felt like running to the front of the plane, grabbing the new missionary, and bringing him back to see what he could become, what he could do. But, would he see the things I saw? Could anyone? Or, would he just see the outward appearance of that mighty elder, tired and worn out, almost dead?
As we landed, I reached over and tapped the returning missionary to wake him up. As he awoke, it seemed like new life poured into his body. his whole frame seemed to fill as he stood up, tall and proud. As he turned his face toward mine, I saw a light that I had never seen before. I looked into his eyes. Those eyes. I will never forget those eyes. They were the eyes of a prophet, a leader, a follower, a servant. They were the eyes of the Savior. No words were spoken. No words were needed. 
As we disembarked, I stepped aside to let him go first. I watched as he walked, slow but steady, tired but strong. I followed him, and found myself walking the way he did. When I came through the doors, I saw the returning missionary in the arms of his parents, and I couldn't hold it in any longer. With tears streaming down my face, I watched these loving parents greet their son, who had been away for such a long time, and I wondered if our parents in heaven would greet us in the same manner. Will they wrap their arms around us to welcome us home from our journey on earth? I believe they will. I just hope that I will be worthy enough to receive such praise, as I'm sure this missionary will.
I said a silent prayer, thanking the Lord for missionaries like this young man. I don't think I will ever forget the joy and happiness he brought to me that day.

Well done, thou good and faithful servant!"

Wednesday, September 17, 2008

Bits and Bobs

I don't have much to blog about right now. I guess it's been kind of a blogless week. Not that that is a bad thing. Spring has sprung, the sun is shining, the sky is blue. It's lovely after such a cold, wet winter here.

I have finally resolved to get to the gym at least once a day, sometimes twice. It's soooo hard to exercise when you haven't in ages. It's as much a mental challenge as it is a physical one. For now I plod away on a bike for 60 minutes reading a book to take my mind off how hard it is, and how tired I am, and how much I am sweating! (I know the ladylike term is "perspire", but there is nothing ladylike about the amount of sweat that comes off me!) Thank goodness it is starting to get a bit easier and more enjoyable and I feel so good afterwards. 

Caleb found an American Football league to join. It's called Grid Iron over here. His first practice was last night, he had a blast. It's actually an adult league (17 and up). They have a junior league that starts later, but they are letting him practice with the adults for now. And when I say adults, I mean BIG Maori and Pacific Island guys. He already has a nickname - they call him "Arizona!"

I am stealing some photos that Jared sent me, and posting them here seeing as he hasn't updated his blog in FOREVER! We keep bugging him to post about his travels and adventures. He told me he could never be a writer because the deadlines and pressure from publishers would be too much! Hopefully he will post soon, as it sounds like he is having a good time.


A lovely "arty" view of the Great Wall. 
It's amazing how well it is constructed and over how many miles of difficult terrain it covers. 


Terracotta Soldiers- pretty amazing. 
I know I watch way too many movies, when a picture like this 
makes me wonder if they'll all suddenly spring to life! 

Tuesday, September 9, 2008

A Pane in the Butt!

Whenever your son calls out in a guilty voice: "Mom....um, can you come here?" - you know it's probably not a good thing.

This happened last night. Somehow, Caleb was standing on the bed, bending over, one leg down behind the bed, trying to kick a ball out from underneath. His backside went through the window. BOYS!



This is the window today. And it's raining! 



Update: See Caleb's version of the event here.

Wednesday, September 3, 2008

Catching up

A few little updates....Hubby and Jared are in China right now. Check out Jared's travel blog for a fun read  here.

I got a calling in our branch. Not in Young Women's but in Old Women's! jk! I'm 1st counselor in Relief Society - education counselor. I'm excited to get to know all the sisters in our branch.

I got totally lost the other day! I volunteered to help transport kids back from a camp out Caleb had with a class from his school. They had gone about an hour away to this high ropes course. I was following a couple of vans back as this is somewhere I had never been before.  The vans went two different ways, and the one I followed was a "speedy gonzalez" and I lost him while going round  a roundabout. So I drove around in circles for about half an hour in this small town despite asking for directions twice! Have you ever been completely lost and disorientated? Grrrr, very frustrating. Again - I would be no good in the Amazing Race!